
Almost every week, I hear at least one student say, “I was too busy to practice.” In reality, today’s kids are busier than ever — but let’s be honest. When I ask, “How much time did you spend watching TV, playing video games, or scrolling online?” the answer usually shows that practice time could have been found.
The same is true for adults. Our lives are packed with responsibilities, but most of us still carve out time for the things that matter — especially when it comes to investing in our families.
As a teacher and professional musician, I’ve always believed the best answer to growth is simple: practice. But after years of working with younger students, I’ve realized it’s not just about practice. Other factors matter too: fun, engagement, the student’s personality, and the teacher’s approach.
Lately, I keep coming back to a powerful image I first stumbled across online. Imagine a music student as a bird. The parents and the teacher are the wings. Without both wings, the bird can’t fly. But when parents and teachers work together, students don’t just move forward — they truly take off.
So here’s the question: what would happen if parents and teachers invested just a little more time and attention into building that partnership? Could we help our students not just crawl through their music journey, but soar as confident, joyful musicians?